BE TRUE TO YOURSELF

To start with, please be reminded readers that this is my property and I am the Author of my blog. Whatever am gonna post in here, you are all welcome to give comments, but no criticism.

We all know that we have different characteristics and personalities in life. We can't force nor be pleased by everybody to like us. We have our own judgment or dictum against our friends or acquaintances, which is very conjoint to a human being. To straighten up what I really meant in here, I will tell you based in my own experience. There is this someone who said that she doesn't like me. But the funny thing is, when we see each other, she always give me a hug. Why you have to coerce, and be fictitious to yourself? You should be true for who you are, it wouldn't benefit you at all for being so fake. In my own point of view, I don't ever give a hug to a person if I would be only faking myself. I have never thought at all that you wouldn't like me...CHAR! and SMILE! how could I notice that you were only faking it? where you have this smile and hug, everytime we met back then. Honestly I didn't get hurt nor mad after knowing the truth that you don't like me. I don't even like myself at times...hehe...In fact I am feeling sorry about you, I do hope you will realize what kind of person you are? and I will also realize what kind of person I am?

I decided to write about this situation in order to warn some of my friends and also myself, to be cautious from hugging and to be hugged. All I can say, WE SHOULD BE TRUE TO OURSELVES!

NOTE: Readers, friends and acquaintances, be noted that I have never mentioned who is this person I am pointing to. So don't ever react what I have posted here. You are welcome to ask me directly if you want to know the details. THANK YOU!

One more thing! If a friend warned you not to share her secrets to anybody else, please be aware to that, if you are really a friend to her. I admit that sometimes it is hard to keep a secret for other people. I can't even promise at times that I am good at keeping secrets. Because there are times that I have been troubled by the secrets, and sometimes we need an advise or opinions from others. So we need to be aware of, who can be really trusted.

For Example....When you say to this friend, "This is just between us," she nods her head but unfortunately that promise will last only as long as it takes her to get to her phone or e-mail. Although there should be an assumption of confidentiality and trust between friends, this friend can't help herself. Telling this person a secret makes her feel vulnerable and uncomfortable. Like the game "hot potato," she has to pass the hot secret along to someone else in order to relieve the anxiety knowing the secret made her feel. There are also some Disclosers who simply have a big mouth. If someone you know has this personality trait, avoid telling her your innermost secret. This friend quickly gets a reputation for being a gossip.