WAITING FOR A SUNSHINE

It is so upsetting that everytime we plan to go to Boulder, the weather is kind of crappy. Babe is off from work on Tuesday, so we have four days together starting today. I checked the weather forecast this week and oh boy it will be cloudy most of these days. My bana was telling me that we should go today since we've been planning to go to Boulder quite long time ago. I told him that it is kind of cold to wear my yellow top, and to walk around in the park. He said that I could wear some light sweater, I told him NO, I don't want to spoil my poise, hehheh! he frowned at me and laughed, and said " What is happening to my wife?" He then asked me if the said war still on going? I didn't say a word, and he then recalled about the incident I had encountered in HK. 3 months before the approval of my FV. I had this acquiantance that I met her every Sunday in the internet cafe I used to stay to IM my bana. She became a Girl Friend of my husband's friend for a short time. She told my bana that I had another guy and he is a doctor, that made my bana real mad. We almost broke up that time because of that gossip. I already told my bana about this doctor since we started emailing each other. After I have known my bana for 3 months, I got a letter from this doctor, since I published my profile at Heart of Asia. I responded this Dr. telling him that I already writing someone, but he responded that he wants me to be his friend. So since that I haven't met my husband in person yet during that time, and I knew that he had a Ukrainian GF, so I think it was ok to be friend with this Dr. When the Dr. sent me a ring after a month of communication, I let my husband knew about it, I didn't hide anything from him. If only I am interested with money, I would chose the Dr. because I knew he has much money, but I love my husband more than money or anything else, so I chose him. There are a few things why I didn't choose the Dr. #1. It frightens me when he told me that he likes a woman to wear sexy skirts. #2. He wants to show off his woman and there are more demands that he wants. I was thinking if I married him, he might change my look, maybe he wants me to go for a plastic surgery, a nose lift or more, because I know that I don't have a beauty for him to show it off. It's not a joke when he wired a lot of money and deposited into my account. He keep convincing me to go back to the Philippines and pursue my studies and that he will shoulder everything. He offered to support my family and build a house for them. The more he offers, the more I am afraid. I turned down all his offers until he asked me to be his secretary. Then I learnt that he has 3 women, but according to him, they were just his friends. Acting as his secretary, I will be the one to communicate all his women. One woman in Cebu that he is supporting her studies financially, she was studying as a teacher, a woman in Marawi City, who was studying as a Nurse, and a Chinese woman in China. I have been in contact with all these women. The 2 women in the Philippines, I have to send them 20,000 pesos every month, while the woman in China I have to send her $300 HK a month. The most strange thing was this Dr. doesn't have any intention to marry any of this women. The filipina in Cebu has a beauty, she is tall and very slim, but when I asked the Dr. why not marry her? his reply was she isn't the type of woman that he likes to marry. So I was telling him that he was just wasting his money if he doesn't want to marry any one of them. He asked me to publish his profile in Kayumanggi Magazine in HK. I also published his profile in Cherry Blossom site which I paid $200 for 6 months, but all I got from him was complained about those filipina women that emailed him. I finally put a closure of our friendship after I met my bana in person. He was still emailing me by then but I explained to him that it wasn't right for me to communicate another guy, while am already engaged to be married. I introduced 2 of my friends with him, but one of them got married recently to an american guy in Texas. According to this friend of mine, she was tired of waiting because everytime they talk, the Dr. always mention my name., asking her if I am happy with my marriage, and to be honest this friend of mine forwarded me the Dr.'s message a few weeks ago. According to my friend he is worried about me, and he wants to know if my husband takes care of me. My friend's suggestion is to reply his message, but I haven't replied yet. He was telling me that I can always count on him, if ever I need help. My other friend that he supported financially inorder her to apply in Canada, was lying to him, so he got real mad of her. One thing I noticed about the Dr. why he likes me a lot because of my honesty. He knew that I am not interested about his money, because whatever the left over of the money he sent to me when I was in HK, I always wired back to his account.

Back to the incident I was talking earlier that my bana recalled, was when I had a fight with this filipina at the internet cafe, I was IMing my bana at that time and he saw the incident thru webcam. After I confronted this filipina woman why he told my bana that I had another guy, she got mad and using this words in Tagalog.....Gusto mo iuntog kita dyan.....? So I stood up and hold my hot cup of milo to pour into her, and my friends grabbed my hand and the milo was scatterred all over the place. My bana called me right away on the phone and reminded me about my fiance visa that just being process. I knew that my FV will be delayed if I burnt that woman with my Hot milo.......Honestly I was so embarrassed after that, I thought that my bana might changed after seeing that incident, thanks God that he understood the whole situation, and he was jokingly telling me, that luckily whenever I got mad at him I don't pour over my hot soy bean milk to him, which I regulary drink here in the morning. I have a kind of temper that hard for me to control when I get hurt by somebody. As my brothers always telling me, na di manghilabot, pero kung hilabtan gali ka ayaw ug surrender kay mag anad ang imong kontra ug daug daugon na lang ka. Remember na walay dako nga makapuling, kung di gamay, CHAR!

Lastly, to those women who is interested ug Dr,. the Dr. still available. Just left me a message and I will give it you his email add. He is such a nice guy very kind and helpful but sobra lang kapilian. He is looking a tall, slim, sexy, and presentable na babaye. When I asked him before why he liked me even though wala ko sa category nga iyang gipang hinganlan, his reply was I am different that's why I am exempted. Di ka musaludo ana, sa akong pagkamaot na exempted ko, hahhahaha. Nabulahan gud ug apil akong mga friends adtong panahuna kay maapilan man sila sa grasya pag magpa package si Dr. nako ug mga food supplement, apil sad sila ug bahin sa wawart. Galing kay I follow my heart man gyod, love na love man gyod nako akong bana, saon man nako ng daghang kwarta kung di nako LOVE, ka yucky na lang pud ana. DI VAH?